Thursday, April 21, 2011

Yeh Sala Paisa :( :(

Ever heard  the song, I will be your  honey till the time u have money.............well its a pretty old song, where the girl in a sweet voice tells her Man.....she will be with him through his trying times.....till the time he has the big M - MONEY!!!!!

Money no doubt is very important to us......but in  todays world, we give it so much importance that it surpasses the importance of our family and friends......Brothers kill brothers for money, they kidnap each others children, Parents are thrown out of their own houses and god knows what all people do for just these printed papers,Our lives revolve around these printed papers. Funnily man created Money, and now Money creates a Man's character........Its shocking but true.....

 In todays cut throat competition and amazing incentives, no more family time..........as one does not know when will one be back. Weekend is apparently "FAMILY TIME", when people are still working from home via their BlackBerrys and Tablets........I know a family, where 3 people live, but they communicate only on weekends, their conversation goes like " How are You??? How was your week, and how is everything going on.???",

 Is it really worth to earn this way if you dont even get time to breathe, One does not even realise and time passes by and before they know they have really no one left for company........One day i asked my friend, "Its nice to see you earn  quite well off for a person for your age, but 17 hours in office, do you even get time to enjoy the fruit of your hard work???", She just shrugged and replied, I love my job and the money is just  fabulous, plus the incentives and perks theres is nothing i could ask for, and the day i think its enough, ill stop working.", "STOP WORKING!!!!", my mind thought, are we human ever happy with what we have???? do we ever have enough.... i dont think so...... i sincerely  hope some day she finds something that she loves more than her work and the money, and she cuts down on her work hours....else her whole life will just pass from front of her eyes....and she will not notice until too late.........

Another  instance is a friend of mine and her boyfriend  they apparently broke up....just because that day in her purse she didn't have enough money to recharge her guys phone, I thought she was kidding, so when i asked the guy, he said it was true...if she couldn't even fulfill one small need of his, what will she do if someday he needed a big help from her (monetary wise).............Thats the  ugliness of money.....or should I say the boy's mentality.....I am not sure......

Money is amazing, necessary and one of the most important driving force for us to perform better in life, I do agree end of the day what matters...is not job , but how much are we earning, but I  don't think its worth our health and mental state of mind.....we work, work and work some more, we work all our life so that we have a great  life when we grow old, and when we grow old, we would be too tired to even enjoy ourselves...Was all this sacrifice of family and friends at all worth it......not that we can take all the money we earned with ourselves to the graves and enjoy there.

When I grow old I would love to have some great memories, with my family and friends, and all the great time we had together. Maybe i wont be having millions and billions of money kept in my locker, but my heart will be filled with millions and billions of happy memories and moments of my life.....I would be at least happy not being a part of the forever on going rat race......When others are rushing I would love to stop, Breathe and enjoy life as it comes, as its one Life to Love.........want to live it to the fullest :)